Dmitry & Maureen: Moving Metro Detroit

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Hey, We Are Being Watched, And Not Everyone Likes What They See

 Rainers: This is an encore presentation of a post that was first appeared exactly one year ago today.  I repost it because much of it is still relevant.  In terms of milestones, this was the first ActiveRain post to ever cross 100 comments.  At the time, it was very controversial.  I confess that it made me squirm and lose sleep, as the comments became increasingly volatile.  Would it still be controversial one  year later?? It is completely unedited from the original 2006 version.

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If you are serious about wanting to be a real estate blogger, there are lots of great resources out there and tons of good people you should be reading.  Some of those good people 'on the outside' of our ActiveRain cocoon are reading some of our ActiveRain blogs, and they aren't impressed. 

This week, Christine Forgione and I had a little conversation about this piece from a very fine blogger, Greg Tracy from BlueRoof.com. Greg writes: 

"ActiveRain is a real estate industry network and has some great real estate bloggers, but they also have a lot of crappy ones who post up to a thousand posts every day trying to earn points on the network."

It upset us both a bit, but upon reflection, I have to say Greg makes a very good point.  Sometimes the truth hurts.  Ouch. 

Personally, I've used my delete button to erase some posts that were bad.  I've gone back and edited some things that I should have said differently the first time.  I've put up some things that have embarrassed me in retrospect.  They are gone now, but still...  People read them.  People haven't forgotten them.  And they are likely cached somewhere if anyone really wanted to find them.

Greg goes on:
"Anyone thinking of getting into blogging ... I would counsel you to go Blogger, Technorati, and ActiveRain and search around so you can find some [blogs] that aren’t so good. This will allow you to consider whether you are willing to put in the work, and also allow you to think about whether you have a talent for writing or not. If you don’t have the talent for it at least read some good ones and get some tips before posting a dozen times every day to write about how you had to bring your dog to your open house or how much you like your new chair at the office."


Very few of us have the gift for blogging that Broker Bryant or Kristal Kraft have.  Just because we can put out 3 posts a day and get points for them, does not mean we should.  We need to keep our eyes on the real prize:  a referral, a new client, or even google pagerank.  Having a lot of points is POINTLESS if you haven't learned anything along the way, or shared something that helped others.

I am not saying that if you cannot blog as well as Kristal or Bryant that you shouldn't.  I like the learning aspect of ActiveRain.  I like that people are encouraging the newbie bloggers.  Its exciting to watch people's blogging skills improve. And I don't think the site has to be all serious and boring.

This week someone pointed out to me a blogger who is reposting his own old material, literally unchanged.  Why bother?  It wasn't even that good the first time.  Ahhh... the points.  I've seen tons of 4 sentence posts, banged out 3 in a row by bloggers who then disappear and don't seem to read what anyone else is writing.  Again, I don't get it.  Copy and paste from a news article--not acceptable.  That's not blogging its laziness and plagiarism.

I think Greg's point leaves me with a bigger message.  We have a responsibility to each other, and to the site owners, to keep this a site filled with quality bloggers.  Otherwise everyone gets dragged down.  The good bloggers will run off and stop posting here.  They'll move their great material on to their own separate blogs so they don't have to be so closely associated with the muck.  I've heard people muttering about just this behind the scenes in the last week or so.   But I don't want to see them leave!

I think there are a ton of great bloggers here.  I am proud to be associated with most of you.  Please, keep up the good work, because I love reading what you have to say.  This message is not about most of you.  And, most likely, those who it is about will never read it anyway.  But if you would like to send it on to anyone you think needs to read it, I am OK with that. 


Comments

Wow...very relevant today Maureen, especially with the gaming going on!
Posted by Monika McGillicuddy Southern NH & the Seacoast Area (Prudential Verani Realty/Hampstead) over 4 years ago
Maureen and Dmitry, thanks for running this past us again. We weren't here for it the first time.
Posted by Gary Bolen (CRS) Lake Tahoe Real Estate Information (McCall Realty) over 4 years ago
WOW, it was exactly one year ago, and I hadn't even heard of activerain. Glad you reposted, yes it will drive off the ones who work hard here.
Posted by Missy Caulk-Ann Arbor-RealtorĀ® Ann Arbor Real Estate (Keller Williams-Ann Arbor) over 4 years ago
It's deja vu all over again! Probably always will be relevant. 
Posted by Carole Cohen RealtorĀ®, ePRO (Howard Hanna Cleveland City Office) over 4 years ago
Here is the first edition, for those who want to relive my pain :->
Posted by Maureen Francis & Dmitry Koublitsky, SKBK Sotheby's - Metro Detroit (SKBK Sotheby's International Realty) over 4 years ago
Funny how times have changed and the names remain the same...  Still relevent today!!!   Thanks for reposting...
Posted by Bob Carney Licensed MD/PA Real Estate Agent (Long & Foster Real Estate, Inc.) over 4 years ago

Maureen - I remember when this was first posted. Yeah, it made me s little uncomfortable until I thought more about it, and the real message. Still relevant - hope lots of folks read it. But, sadly, the ones who really should, will not.

Jeff

Posted by Jeff Dowler ~ Carlsbad Homes for Sale ~ 760-840-1360 (Solutions Real Estate (CA DRE Lic. # 01490977)) over 4 years ago
sure, there are the ones trying to just get points, but I think the readers are smart enough to know the difference. don't you?  Also, this allows for good posts, like your own, to shine...
Posted by Prudential California Realty/Gem Mortgage over 4 years ago
As long as there are dishonest writers and publishers, this post is going to apply.
Posted by Camarillo CA Real Estate Agent/ Mana Tulberg (805 County Real Estate) over 4 years ago
Maureen - I am not a great blogger but I try to provide information to my marketplace.  I know I am being effect based on the results I am  getting.  I know what you mean about the two line post lacking substance;  however I am thankful for a core of people here who do a quality job.
Posted by Jennifer Fivelsdal Rhinebeck Real Estate (Serving Dutchess| Columbia|Ulster Ctys (LIC. R.E. Broker JFIVE Home Realty LLC ) over 4 years ago
Funny - Not very controverial at all, IMHO. However, this post is still all too relevant. Thank you for reposting it.
Posted by Mariana Wagner ~ Colorado Springs REALTORĀ® (Wagner iTeam -Keller Williams Realty) over 4 years ago
I enjoyed it then, and I enjoy it again now. If I could 'feature' it, I would!
Posted by Rich Jacobson Your Kitsap County WA Real Estate Broker (Keller Williams West Sound Realty) over 4 years ago
Sounds the same.......so, now what?
Posted by Kathy McGraw, Riverside County CA Real Estate (CELLing Realty) over 4 years ago

IMHO ActiveRain is worse now than it was a year ago.

This post should not be controversial.  I don't think it was really controversial a year ago, some just took it personally. 

Very relevant.  After the Move Inc. revelation (ActiveRain nearly selling to Move) a few weeks ago I spent time reading the outside posts about AR at that time and then took a hard look at AR and was revolted. Not just at the plagiarism and crappy little posts for points but at the scams and all the posts about nothing.  Of course I don't have to read them. There are good posts here and there is a lot to read outside AR.  

 

Posted by Maureen McCabe Columbus Ohio real estate (Real Living HER - HER Realtors) over 4 years ago

I wasn't here a year ago and am thankful that you reposted this.  I struggle here on AR -- learning to blog at the same time learning what "not" to blog about.  I've made a conscious decision recently to reach the consumer with my words and NOT the AR community.  If my words are helpful to the community then that is nice, if it is helpful to the consumer that is even better.

Thanks Maureen. 

Posted by Kris Wales - Macomb County MI real estate blog & homes for sale search site (Keller Williams Realty - Lakeside Market Center) over 4 years ago
It's amazing that it's been a year.  Feels more like 5 years sometimes!  Yesterday I needed to find information on a particular subject.  I searched A.R. and saved myself tons of work and headache.  You gotta love that.
Posted by Chris Elizabeth Griffith ~ Bonita Springs Fl Real Estate (Downing-Frye Realty, Bonita Springs, FL) over 4 years ago

Great post! I notice many of the "outsiders" who now have their own blog seem to have a bad taste for A/R now.

These same people were once on the A/R band wagon,touting A/R and it`s site.

What difference does it make if someone posts 3,4 or 5x`s a day? I`m curious?

I remember a long time ago you once posted that way.

Posted by Florida List For Less Realty, Inc. Broker/Owner. over 4 years ago
Thank you for your words of wisdom!
Posted by Steve Volkers Grand Rapids Real Estate (Keller Williams Realty) over 4 years ago

Nearly a month after you reposted this one year post (think that through) i have had the chance to take a look at it. It is very true, the "gaming" of the system, and people posting.. well, crap that should not be there. It has been a problem from the beginning, and will continue to be a problem. There comes a time when you have to look to your own blog and say "that just isn't me, I will say my piece about it, support the groups/communities that I am in and fight the crap from intruding there, but I can't fight the entire network" and hope that each person takes that stance and the network cares for itself. 

That view should also take you back about a year with wanting members to be "adults." Oh the things we wish...

Posted by Lydia Heaton (ActiveRain Corp.) over 4 years ago

I'm a new AR member, joined in October and I'm curious to know if you've ever posted a home listing on AR?  What is the protocol for this?  I find some agents primarily post listings and minimal articles and others the opposite.  Is the purpose of AR to elevate it's members by sharing insights, knowledge, wisdom and experience or is it a free way to add listings to the web?  I'm just a little ignorant on this.

Thanks for the post, very insightful!

Posted by Cornerstone Home Loans over 4 years ago

When I first saw people showing their listings as "blogs" I was dubious as well. I also asked the same question you are...the answer is and was, "yes, you can "blog" your listings. The area to post in is actually PUBLIC/LOCALISMS and there is a spot for LISTINGS...

The listing, however, does become your "blog". That's okay, though. It lets your clients know how hard you are working for them. Hopefully, others will see your listing and maybe respond!

Posted by Michele Lundgren, Keller Williams in Royal Oak, MI almost 4 years ago

I do not post on ActiveRain, but have learned so much about real estate from reading many of the good articles.  It has also inspired me to start my own community specific blog which is beginning to attract an audience.  Many thanks to the excellent authors willing to share their ideas!

Posted by Kelly Cantwell, Real Living HER in Columbus, OH almost 4 years ago

Maybe lame posts should be rated like on America's Got Talent...three XXX's and your audition is over.  Some newbies don't read the rules and study how the best blogs are attracting comments. I don't think they have given any thought as to the public seeing how they can't spell or write decent copy. Spell check your comments too.

Internet clients won't be calling them to buy or sell property. Our reputations are out here for all to see and we should write like we know what we are doing and have some intelligence...or not blog at all. Read all the guidelines and study styles of writing before you start. This is a stage and you can be the star!

That's my 2 cents! lol

 

Posted by Lizette Fitzpatrick - Lexington KY MLS - Kentucky Homes - Horse Farms (Lizette Realty - Lexington KY - Richmond KY) almost 4 years ago

I'm with you - I totally get it.  Everything we do is a reflection of ourselves.  I learned a long time ago, I'm not putting my name on something if I'm not proud of it.

Posted by Georgina M. Hunter R(S) e-Pro Maui Real Estate Sales (Jim Sanders Realty Inc. - Maui) almost 4 years ago

Maureen, it was a great, relevant  post then and it's a great, relevant post now!

Posted by Brian Schulman - Your Lancaster County, PA Real Estate Expert (Coldwell Banker Select Professionals, Lancaster PA) almost 4 years ago

Just curious, what is bringing traffic on to this post today?  Thanks all for your comments, but how are you getting here?

Posted by Maureen Francis & Dmitry Koublitsky, SKBK Sotheby's - Metro Detroit (SKBK Sotheby's International Realty) almost 4 years ago

I wondered the same thing..  I thought it was on the original....which I was just visting yesterday.  Does someone have a link to it on a post?

Posted by Maureen McCabe Columbus Ohio real estate (Real Living HER - HER Realtors) almost 4 years ago

Can I make another request for trackbacks on ActiveRain????!!!

Posted by Maureen Francis & Dmitry Koublitsky, SKBK Sotheby's - Metro Detroit (SKBK Sotheby's International Realty) almost 4 years ago

I would hope that, if (and when? hopefully never) I do something wrong on AR someone would have the kindness to tell me rather than just blog about what I've done or said that was wrong.  We are not all brilliant writers and I have just started blogging.  I am considerably older than you guys appear to be and this is a new world to me.  Most people my age don't even have a computer or an e-mail account which, as a Realtor, drives me crazy.  If I had not had a daughter to convince me that this was something (the computer not AR) that would help keep my brain going I would never be writing this now.  Like I said before, if there is something wrong with what a person is doing there is always a nice way to tell them.  They may be after "points", whatever they are, or they may just be making a mistake.  OK, I've probably said enough and please let me know if I'm wrong. Don't just delete me if I'm wrong, do let me know.

Posted by Sondra McDonald (Beach & Luxury Realty Referral, Inc.) almost 4 years ago

MF - I put this post in today's AR Newsletter. You were the 'Featured' member today....don't you get the newsletter?

Posted by Rich Jacobson Your Kitsap County WA Real Estate Broker (Keller Williams West Sound Realty) almost 4 years ago

Since I joined AR late last year I missed your first post. I am so glad you re-posted this material. This is great information and hopefully we can all learn from it. Thanks again!

Betina

Posted by Betina Foreman almost 4 years ago

Hmmm, this was featured in yesterday's AR email.  Perhaps the third time around???

As a new blogger, I appreciate the post and repost.  I agree we can learn from the good bloggers and "what not to do" from some others.  I am seeing repeat market reports: a market report written for one town, and the exact same report posted to five or ten other towns, although they are very different markets.

It is important to me to appear professional to my colleagues on "Members Only" posts.  It is critical to me to appear professional to consumers. 

Maureen and Dmitri, I don't find your post controversial at all.  I also find that the rating system itself, such as points, is controversial on many different forums.  I think that consumers who find us on Localism and Active Rain are pretty smart.  If our posts aren't up to par, there will be no benefit but have the opposite effect.  IMHO.

Thank you AR for the featured repost!!!

PS Sondra you make a good point - We need to extend professional courtesy to each other.  I agree, as a Newbie, and I hope that AR members will give me the benefit of the doubt when I make a mistake.  I won't fret too much about a mistake.  I'll simply thank whoever points this out, correct it & try not to do it again!!

Posted by Margaret Mitchell, York Maine Real Estate (Coldwell Banker Yorke Realty) almost 4 years ago

Just another quick note, I know everyone on AR is not a Realtor, however as Realtors we have a Code of Ethics and as humans we have the "Golden Rule".  Don't go out of your way to hurt anyone and try to help all those who will receive your help.  There will be some who will disregard anything you say whether it is positive or negative because they are busy thinking of what they are going to say next, That's What's Important.  Just give everyone the benefit of the doubt until you see that they don't deserve it.

Thanks for the blog and HAVE A HAPPY & SAFE FOURTH OF JULY so we can all be back to blog another day.

Posted by Sondra McDonald (Beach & Luxury Realty Referral, Inc.) almost 4 years ago

psst there is NO rating system on AR now... we (members) used to rate posts.

 

 

Posted by Maureen McCabe Columbus Ohio real estate (Real Living HER - HER Realtors) almost 4 years ago

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